Embrace the Within no. 214

“I am giving you a new command: that you keep on loving each other. In the same way that I have loved you, you are also to keep on loving each other. Everyone will know that you are my talmidim by the fact that you have love for each other” (Yochanan (Jhn) 13:34-35). We are to love each other like Jesus loved us. He is to be our example of love in action. Folks will know we follow Him through our love for each other. Adopting or continuing in the habits of the Goyim is not His Way.

Yesterday I spoke a little about the secular trend of “telling it like it is” that has crept its way into church. “Telling it like it is” is something different than speaking Truth. Speaking Truth comes through love for one another while “telling it like it is” comes from an argument mentality of the world to win in the clash of ideas. The great thing about following Jesus is that I no longer need to win anything because He already won for me. I don’t need to argue that my ideas are better or that my way of life is better with my words. My actions of loving like He did will go far beyond what I can say. Mirroring His Way of loving each other goes a long way to showing the Goyim what He is like. And we show that through the fruits of the Ruach HaKodesh, “. . . love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility, self control. Nothing in the Torah stands against such things” (Galatians (Gal) 5:22-23).

We don’t need to win arguments. We don’t need the best scripture references. We don’t need to “own” folks that disagree with our beliefs. Those are things of the Goyim. I should know because I spent a lot of time out there thinking that having the best philosophy and the best argument were going to do something. Let me tell you that it didn’t. Thankfully God used those situations for me to grow and become a better Christian and a better person. And there are rifts that still exist in my life from those days. There are folks that will no longer speak to me. There are folks that have unfriended me. There are folks that will not accept my apology. There are folks that I hurt. And I have to own those mistakes of my past that came out of a culture of “telling it like it is” and trying to win arguments.

We do not need to win arguments. We don’t need to do anything but love Him and our neighbors.

Grace and Shalom to your home.

I love you. I forgive you. Have a blessed and abundant day!

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Embrace the Within no. 213

“You have heard that our fathers were told, ‘Love your neighbor — and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! Then you will become children of your Father in heaven. For he makes his sun shine on good and bad people alike, and he sends rain to the righteous and the unrighteous alike. What reward do you get if you love only those who love you? Why, even tax-collectors do that! And if you are friendly only to your friends, are you doing anything out of the ordinary? Even the Goyim do that! Therefore, be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect” (Mattityahu (Mat) 5:43-48). It is easy for me to love the people that love me. The people that treat me well and want the best for me are easy to love. BUT I need to love the folks that want the worst for me most of all. The folks that hate and despise me need my love even more. The folks with whom I disagree, the folks that are evil, the folks that are mean, the folks that are sinning, these are the people I need to love a lot more than I typically do. How do I show that love? Well, I don’t show it by calling the names. Christ already said not to do that. I don’t do it by being mean and evil and sinful. That isn’t very Christlike. I don’t do it by ignoring them. Christ did not avoid those who hated and persecuted him. How do I show that love?

I need to become more like Him. I need to “do something wonderful” for those that hate me. I need to be “praying for them” and not in an angry psalmist way for vengeance BUT in a sincere way of wanting them to live a better life.

They are image bearers as I am. They were lost as I was. And when I was lost God loved me enough to make a path out. And when I was lost there were plenty of folks that showed me love.

I need to act like a complete, mature, perfected example of Christ and that means doing things completely different from others. It’s easy to love the folks that treat me right. BUT it is something else entirely to love those that lie, cheat, steal, oppress, hate, and sin.

So, I get to choose to be like my neighbors and love just the folks that are easy to love or love the folks that make it difficult to love them. And let me tell you, the difficult folks do not make it easy on you. I am in an ongoing struggle to love through a relationship with a relative that is stiff-necked about his faith BUT fails to forgive. I know from experience that this is not an easy task.

BUT it is what God wants me to do because it is what Christ would do. And I think all too often I forget that example. Christ didn’t spend all day talking to His disciples, He was out spreading love to the folks that needed it. The folks that were stiff-necked in their self righteousness and sinful ways. And He didn’t come to flame or troll or own them, He came to save them.

If I am to be an Ambassador of the Kingdom of Heaven then I need to be a son of my Father. And my Father causes it to rain and shine on the just and unjust, on the righteous and unrighteous, on the saint and the sinner, on the friend and the enemy. So, I need to ignore the labels that the world and I heap on others. I need to look beyond how the world would categorize folks and look at each and every person as the image bearer of the Father that they are.

I am not here to judge. I am here to offer the love of Christ by being His representative, His Ambassador. I am here to walk in the Way of the Lord as a model for others. And I can’t do that in hate or judgment or self righteousness. I can only do that in spiritual maturity. And that means not going low, not being mean, not being vengeful, not being spiteful . . . It means a lot more of denying me and my ego in order to be obedient to His Will.

Today I pray that the Lord help make me perfect like Him in my love for the folks that want nothing BUT evil for me. I pray that I can show the love of Christ to folks that make me angry, folks that are stubborn, and folks that are downright nasty to me. I pray that I choose love and peace and mercy and grace like Christ. I pray that my example of God’s love is enough to help show them a path to salvation. I pray that my example leads them to a connection and a commitment to a relationship of love with Christ.

I love you. I forgive you. Have a blessed and abundant day!

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